A Birth Plan By Any Other Name…..

With the majority of women heading to the hospital to birth their babies, planning for the impending birth has become an important aspect of preparation in the United States (though the percentage of out of hospital births is rising).  Standardized, highly medicalized, non-individualized perinatal and postpartum care has really led the way to this being [...]

Technology and the Prenatal “Diet”

In westernized countries, television and the internet have almost completely replaced the generational teaching and learning found in the “circles” of the past. Women would gather over sewing, quilting, canning, and life events including pregnancy and childbirth. They offered support, told their stories, spoke of family life, shared their everyday knowledge, wisdom and expertise while [...]

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Help me out! Click below and vote for me to be a Top Mommy Blogger. I would love to make Top 10. Top 50 Mommy Bloggers Vote for me under PrepForBirth! Thank you! Desirre

Sisterhood of the Scar Revisited

Many years ago I wrote this piece after attending my very first ICAN conference in San Diego in 2005. I read this and part of me weeps for her, for the me I was and for the women who are becoming part of this sisterhood willingly, wittingly or not.  My pain has been transformed into [...]

Shocking quotes regarding maternal choice to VBAC birth

Joy Szabo has been in the news lately for desiring a second VBAC for her fourth baby (vaginal birth, emergency cesarean, and vaginal birth).  She has been denied locally in her area of Page, AZ to have a vaginal birth. Due to this situation, the International Cesarean Awareness Network has been assisting her in fighting [...]

Preparing For Birth – Quotes from Women on What Pushing Feels Like

A couple of weeks ago I went on a quest to find out just what pushing was like for other women.  As an educator and doula it is probably one of the more challenging concepts to address.  Why?  Well some of the imagery can be quite vulgar.  “Push like you are pooping.” Do women REALLY [...]

Preparing For Birth – Question of the Day #2

How did you react to and what were your feelings, words or thoughts after your baby was born (within the first one or two hours)?

Applied Skills for Childbirth and Postpartum Professionals

Applied Skills for Childbirth and Postpartum Professionals A continuing education seminar featuring sessions taught by CAPPA Faculty Trainers, designed to benefit Doulas and Educators alike. August 22, 2009 ~ 9 a.m. – 4:30 p.m. ~ Swedish Medical Center. . Amanda Glenn MA, CPD – Navigating the NICU Experience . Desirre Andrews CCCE, LCCE, CLD, CLE [...]

What might a cesarean get you? Often more than is bargained for.

This is a  slight re-do from a popular blog post from early 2008. The information is vital and pertinent to the near 1.5 million women (based on previous CDC data) who will have a cesarean surgery this year. Having a cesarean section will almost always  get you a baby.  Generally there is much more to [...]

Preparing for Post Birth –

Putting effort into the initial postpartum period is in my opinion equally as important as preparing for pregnancy and birth.  Sometimes it is even more important due to circumstance or birth outcome.  Too many focus solely on the labor, delivery and perhaps the “stuff” that goes with having a baby while completely forgetting to look [...]