Posts Tagged ‘friendship’

30 Days of Gratitude, day 19: Vivian Harmon

Thursday, November 19th, 2015

Copy of thankful 2015 day 19Vivan Harmon, Student Midwife extraordinaire! I do not exaggerate when I say that I am most grateful for my fellow student and assistant. The more I get to know Vivian, the more I admire, respect, and love her.

When I first started assisting Desirre, she and Vivian had already worked together as assistants under Merrie MacDowell, the midwife who caught my two youngest babies. They had a rhythm in their work that was like a choreographed ballet. I wondered in my insecurity if I would ever attain that kind of synchronicity.

Thanks to Vivian, I have.

From the beginning, she taught me efficiently and kindly how to do what she does, and brought me up to speed faster than I would have thought possible. She has had nothing but grace and kindness for me during our entire professional relationship, and I feel blessed to now count her among my friends.

Ain't she purty, too?

Ain’t she purty, too?

She has been open to my questions, taught me how to do things before they are asked for, and shown me little tips and tricks that make the work we do so much easier and more efficient. She knows how to cooperate and work together, how to correct mistakes graciously, and how to lead and ask for what she needs. She and I work together so well, and I couldn’t be more grateful for her calm presence.

Vivian is intelligent, honest, loyal, professional, honest, capable, humble, confident, kind, funny, and pretty much just amazing all around. I kinda want to be more like her when I grow up.

As we face separate paths this coming New Year, I couldn’t let this old year pass by without expressing my gratitude for her presence in my life. Thank you, Vivian. I heart you with many hearts.

Who are you thankful for in your life?

Warmly,
Tiffany Miller
Student Midwife and Childbirth Educator

30 Days of Gratitude, Day 2: Mentors.

Monday, November 2nd, 2015

thankful 2015 day 3Today, I want to share my gratitude for (and to) my mentor, Desirre Andrews, CPM, RM.

There is no single person who has contributed more to my growth and development, both professionally and personally, than she has in the past several years that I’ve known her. Truthfully, I don’t even quite remember how long I’ve known her, she has become such an integrated part of my life.

She is the big sister I never had. I cannot help but turn to her for advice on everything from Diva cups to marriage to grief to birth to business and even faith. She is always ready with answers that leave room for my own thought, my own application. I am free with her to pick and choose what advice makes sense and applies to my life, and which advice can be filed away for a rainy day, or passed on to someone to whom it will have more value.

Desirre is the best butt-kicking fairy a person can have, and she has more than earned her wings in my life! She is never one to just tell me what I want to hear. Instead, she calls my attention to nooks and crannies of thought that I might never have reached for, dusting off the dark corners of my common sense and intuition and helping me bring them to light.

I cannot talk about Desirre without mentioning how beautifully our brain squirrels work together. Whenever we need new marketing material, or need to brainstorm new formats for classes, we have the most fun with a whiteboard and a thesaurus. It’s really quite ridiculous. And we wouldn’t have it any other way!

I cannot thank God enough for bringing her into my life, and I look forward to a lifetime of sisterhood and friendship with her.

Do you have a mentor? Whose influence in your life are you most thankful for this year? Share in the comments!

Warmly,
Tiffany Miller
Childbirth Educator, Student Midwife