Why take childbirth classes anyway?
Why take childbirth classes anyway? You and baby are made for this process, so what is the big deal? You go into labor, have many contractions, eventually become fully dilated and push out a baby. Bam. It’s nature! Right?
Not quite, I’m afraid.
In a perfect world, women would grow up around pregnancy, labor, birth and postpartum to soak it all in. Younger girls would assist the mother, participating in many aspects of her care, and would then gain valuable in-person true life experiences that give her encouragement, education, and confidence going into her own pregnancies, births, and postpartum times. Aunties, grandmothers, daughters, cousins, and friends all would participate in this womanly art of birth. If this were still the case, it would put the need for childbirth classes to an end.
Sadly, women in our culture are all too often discouraged, educated with fear, and lack confidence about all things related to pregnancy, labor, birth and early postpartum. It is a mystery to most women as they grow up, and very few have regular access to normal birth. Indeed, the body of a woman isn’t something that is expanded on widely in health classes, or talked about with any raw clarity. The female body, and what it can do, is shrouded in mystery from puberty to the end of life. So, we need good childbirth classes because women have been giving birth in a vacuum for a long time, and have lost the knowledge they once would have grown up with.
Women and babies deserve better. Women and babies deserve to have positive, foundational knowledge to pass down to the next generation. Women and babies deserve the care that can come when the veil is torn, and the mystery becomes clear.
Women learn in community. Quilting bees, canning day, and wash day didn’t really go away. It’s merely been replaced by play dates, mom groups, and social media. Childbirth classes are one more great way to bring women together over a common goal so that they can learn from each other. It serves the purpose of re-integrating the knowledge of generations of birthing women into the modern world.
A good childbirth class will help a woman and her partner to:
- Gain current evidence-based information.
- Learn how the female body works and why.
- Understand how she and baby labor together.
- Utilize tried and true techniques.
- Be encouraged and grow in confidence.
- Practice role-playing of common scenarios.
- Solidify her unique birth philosophy.
- Sharpen communication and consumer skills for real life application.
Why a childbirth class? Because women don’t need to be told what to do. They need to be helped and supported in what they believe is best for themselves and their babies. Because women need to discover that they are so much more capable and strong than they ever thought possible. Because they deserve a foundation of knowledge to base their decisions on.
Why a childbirth class? Because women deserve better than the status quo.
Tiffany & Desirre
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