Posts Tagged ‘Birth plan’
A Doula For The Dying: 5 Things I Learned at My Father’s Deathbed
Almost three years ago, I packed up my four children and drove to Oregon to help care for my father. His melanoma had metastasized to his spinal fluid, and everything that could be thrown at it to kill it, had been. There was nothing left, but to wait. Probably only weeks were left. His decline…
Read MoreDo’s and Don’ts in Labor & Delivery (a.k.a. Getting What You Want, Kindly)
Birth plans. Epidurals. Natural Childbirth. Doulas. Induction. Cesareans. And more… The list of decisions about birth goes on and on… More women are becoming dissatisfied with the status quo in American maternity care, and are asking for something outside the norm for the hospital where they plan give birth. Naturally, this might make for some…
Read MoreF.E.A.R.
I have been thinking on the F.E.A.R. (False Evidence Appearing Real) acronym. What else can it mean? Fear itself can be a positive or a negative. Fear can be a stumbling block or a motivator. I enjoy coming up with affirmations and words that alter the view especially as it relates to pregnancy, childbirth and…
Read MoreWriting Your Own Birth “Plan”
A birth plan has more than one purpose. It begins as a value clarification exercise, then becomes a communication tool with your care provider and ultimately a guide of needs and desires during labor, delivery and postpartum. Even if your birth location does not ask for birth plans, it is a good idea to write…
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